so i saw this mail from Linda ikeji's blog and it caught my eye and i decided to read it and after i did... i needed you guys to visit this page and drop comments...here's d story
Hi Linda. I usually dont do this but i like the way your bloggers give
advice, so i need help. I come from an ok family from the south east,
but am dating a son of wealthy south-western man. I am an educated
woman in my own rights i have two bachelors and a masters and currently
working on my mba. I work for fortune 500 company abroad, but I get to
see my man when ever i can. We have been together for three years now.
I know he is madly inlove with me, and i thought i was inlove with him
too, but after i spent christmas with him and his family, I found
myself falling for the brother. I was attracted to his brother's sexy
brown chocolate features, smile, eyes, character, my sister, the guy is
truly a well groomed prince. His younger brother on the other hand
is cute and fair, very funny, very outspoken( his take attitude and
intelligence are what attracted me to him at first). Am in my early
twenties, very cultured, and i know its a taboo, at least in my culture
to date two brothers. The guy I have been dating happens to be the
junior brother who is closer to my age, but whenever am around his
older brother, my knees get weak, and i get butterflies in my stomach.
I still hold my Vcard, and for some strange reason my friends told me
maybe that's why the older brother has interest in me, since i guess
his brother spilled he hasnt touched me during a truth or dare game we
played during the holiday. I hear so many rumors about how my boyfriend
carries girls around when am not around, but i dont do rumors, I trust
him, so i feel its wrong that I am having such feelings for his
brother. I mean I want his brother to the extent that i would even let
the guy pop my cherry. His older brother and i share same birthday
month and the guy got me a gift of poems, very thoughtful, and since
then we have been texting, video chatting, its like we have become best
friends, I feel i can tell him anything, and worst of all I have
continued to fall even deeper inlove with him. He sent me a text
yesterday saying "If I only had met you before my brother did, then i
would be the happiest man right now." I didnt know what to say. I just
loled it. Like i said I believe in traditions, I want to tell him how
i feel, but I come from ngwaland and its a taboo, to promise a man
that you will marry him, then turn around and dump him for his brother.
I dont want to destroy their relationship, I feel overwhelmed. I feel
like i should just leave the family alone and just go my own way,
because i dont want to be the force that divides them. I have spoken to
one of their sisters whom I am closed to, but she told me to stay
with the brother who gets the biggest part of their father's empire.
Its like she thought i was dating her brother for their money. I beg ,
money isnt everything. I dont want his family's money, am a content
hard working independent woman, who makes her own money, so i aint gold
digging.I dont know what to do, I have been dodging my man's calls,
texts, for three days now, but when ever his brother texts me I jump
for the phone. So advices please. I feel like am emotionally cheating
on the guy am currently dating with his older brother. What should i
do, because I dont think I can control myself around his older brother
when i go home this summer. Help!!!! Thank you
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